OMG IDK how you do it, roni pam!!!! Sometimes I think, though, we can forget at least some of our pain and problems if we keep busy....but you are ridiculously busy! I thought my sister worked a lot with a full and a part-time job!
One thing I do think is if you have jobs you love, it's really not hard to put in the time. I love my regular job, but it's only 20 hours a week. This morning, though, I was so frustrated, the tension actually started bringing on some PsA symptoms--just the throbbing fingers--but it definitely felt like the stress of things that were happening at work were causing them to throb! But, even though I was frustrated, I still enjoy the small challenge of my work--I know my job so well, eveything has become routine and easy. The challenge is when our student workers have such bad attitudes they make mega mistakes and can't seem to learn simple procedures, which puts a lot on me. And, I wouldn't mind the extra work, but I've been asking for my hours increased to 30 a week for the longest time and they keep teasing me with telling me that it's a possibility, but then it never happens. I only plan to work four more years (until my 66th birthday) and it would be nice to have the extra $ and some additional benefits--like cheaper health insurance, until I retire.
I swear, if I heard the expression "hard work never hurt anyone" once, I heard it a million times while I was growing up. My parents seemed to be healthy and strong for a lot of years, and they did work hard. Actually, sometimes I think that slowing down and doing more sitting around watching TV has been detrimental to my health these last few years, but it was a double-edged sword when I had PsA really bad and felt exhausted all of the time--I felt I needed to relax more--yet, that caused more stiffness--which, in turn, caused more fatigue--which, in turn, sent my health on a downward spiral--which, in turn, caused me to give up and go on Enbrel, which, in turn, made me feel so much better I hurt my back, which, in turn, gave me a permanent bad back, which in turn......ooops, I got carried away. :-D