Heres the thing, you have already proven worth it and want to do it by seeking help…
You prolly don’t need any “advice” BUT the fact is when we find ourselves sitting around just procrastinating day in and day out, its because we are thinking. Our thoughts are near impossible to contol, So its easy to say: just stop over-thinking. Shut off you brain. Just put on your clothes – or sit down at the phone, computer or wherever you need to be – and go and just do it. When our thoughts and feelings and constantly holding us back then I think we sometimes just need to stop listening to them and take action, without THINKING about it
This is easy to say of course. It’s a bit harder to do and to develop into a consistent habit. But it is possible. Thinking has its place but it isn’t action. No matter how much you think you still need to take action. Developing a “just do it habit” can make taking action easier and will stop you from wasting a lot of time going over different scenarios – that are mostly negative – over and over in your head. I have been just doing it for years, otherwise I’d get NOTHING done. I have a habit most know here of over thinking EVERYTHING.
Just getting going and doing something even if your thoughts and feelings want to hold you back becomes easier if you have small list of positive benefits in your mind or on a piece of paper. Then you know why you should go even if you don’t feel like it and are having negative and self-defeating thoughts and feelings at the moment.
And if you think back to the times in past when you first felt hesitant you may remember that those negative feelings pretty quickly were replaced with more positive ones. And you were happy that you got started. It’s pretty likely that the same thing will happen this time too.
Nothing is ever as bad as we think it is. Besides what the worst that can happen? Really! what is the worst that can happen at work? Get sacked? So what you were looking for a job when you found this one…
In the meantime PLEASE keep in touch with your Psych Its a sure way to move up the waiting list. Keep in touch with us WE CARE.
Just Do it is NOT Chinese. You have done it hundreds if not thousands of times… and has always worked out. You are still here. One of my favorite stories about just doing it is exactly that so forgive me in advance. We had a late night TV host here by the name of Johnny Carson. He was a comedian (one of the Best anywhere IMO) The pinnacle of any aspiring comedian was to show his stuff on the tonight show. IF he was really good he got invited to sit on the couch and his career pretty much assured. Johnny finally got to retirement age and left the show.
About 10 years later when Johnny passed away, The host of the show was talking about him and shared his first time on the Johnny Carson show. (forgive me ladies) He said it was just like having sex for the first time… It was painful, not very good, and WAAAY too fast but when it was over you knew one thing You just HAD to do it again.
The first Time the new host was on the Johnny Carson show he was NOT invited to the couch, but he did come back performed again, The second time he was invited to the couch. I don’t know if you have heard of Jay Leno, but he was MORE success than Johnny Carson and hosted the show longer.
Of course you can do it on your own IF you don’t think about it and just do it. Think of the times you were scared and did and discovered no matter HOW it turned out you wanted to do it again.
Psychs are interesting folk. IF he didn’t think you could, and would, you would be in in-patient treatment as we speak. He wants you to do it and so do we…