Hi caryle.
Sadly, quite a few folks have mentioned that their spouses don’t understand. And you might be interested in this discussion in another section of this site:
The uveitis does get an airing here from time to time too, and at least there are fairly straightforward ways to tackle that. Up by your avatar on the top right of the page, there’s a magnifying glass symbol, if you click on there, you’ll get a ‘search’ box and old discussions about uveitis will be listed if you type the word in.
I’m sorry things are difficult. If you’d like to share a bit more, please do. Good to hear from you.