Hmm, 6 years after I felt like a truck hit me, I can, sometimes, just feel it coming. Often I miss it.
My simplest example IS mowing the lawn… I just recently moved into a place with a big lawn. The first time, I mowed it in one day. Boy, was I punished. Stupidly, I did it again, thinking it was “just me”.
Well of course it was just me! But doing it the same way again wasn’t going to fix that! (and it didn’t).
Next time, I mowed the front one day, and the back next.
The back is twice as big as the front - still too much.
Now, I split it up into three.
I’m a slow learner, but I get there.
And, eventually, I have learnt to see it coming. When I start holding my breath - I realized that is how my body tries to push through discomfort - I know I need to reassess.
Not necessarily stop - perhaps I just need to breathe, pay attention to my body, and know that stopping time might be soon. That signal gives me time to make a plan to stop - ok, I’ll mow to there. Or I’ll trot once more around the ring, or if I’m on a walk turn for home (whether I’m a mile away, or a block - same principal works for me).
I’ve learnt that if I listen better to my body, it actually shouts pretty loudly at me. I was always so fit, and the change so sudden, it took a big adjustment. But interestingly, it’s made me better at some things.
Particularly when it’s hot (40 deg C plus) in the fieald, I do the morning in the field, and the afternoon on the computer. At the start, my clients seemed a bit miffed and compared me to other consultants who worked in the field all day.
Now, they appreciate that I create methodical, well documented reports on my field work with a robust explanation of my interpretation. In an employment category with around 50% of people unemployed or underemployed, I have to say no to new work.
I’m not going to say it is easy or rainbows and unicorns, but pacing has made my whole life better.
If you can stop and listen to your body, you will find your own signals. For me, it’s breath holding if I’m doing something physical, or, if I’m in the office, I look like I have a headache. Today I drove into a clients office - a 1.5 hour drive. I’d normally stay till the end of the day to make the drive in and out worth it. But by about 1.30, my brain was slower than my PsA normal, and at two, I saw myself in the mirror in the toilets, I looked like I had a terrible headache. I made my preparations to leave, and told the client I had an appointment to go to.
And, before my meds kicked in, I held my breath MOST of the time. I looked like a had a terribly headache MOST of the time. But subjectively, in hindsight, there were some times worse than others. I won’t kick myself for not saying no, or taking a rest then - I was still learning, but I’m happy to do it now.
What do others find their body signals are? As well as prevention and treatment, how do you know you are overdoing it?