Hey sista! I don't like it when they say it's stress, either, because I think what they're really saying is it's all in my head. And if you want to tick me off, just tell me my pain is imaginary and my blood boils! BUT, I am pretty sure stress does make me feel worse, and lately my job has been really stressful for a number of reasons, and I'll be working full-time for 4 - 6 weeks starting August 15 when Fall semester begins. I've noticed, too, that any time I worry or get upset about something my shoulders ache more. I just hate going to the doctor, but I know I should. We're going on vacation for a few days starting Wednesday, and we'll be relaxing at a lake 'up north' so I'm hoping that'll help. No stress up there!
I hate to hear you're in the same boat. You have had a lot with selling your house and stuff. IDK what I'll do when that day comes. And considering the condition my husband and I are in, I don't think we'll last in this two-story house (plus my laundry room is in the basement) for too many more years. The yard is huge, so much mowing in summer and snow blowing/shoveling in winter. The thought of leaving this home that I helped build and where our kids all grew up makes me so sad. I know it's just a house, but I don't see it that way.
Anyway, we have plans of hiring the older grandkids in the upcoming years......
If our biologics are failing, maybe you should try mine and I yours!? Except for what Jamie replied--I think I'll be the most depressed person on earth if Enbrel does fail and I switch to Humira, only for it to fail, too!!! Enbrel was a huge game changer for me, and I got spoiled feeling so good for awhile. Then, I remind myself how 'not good' I've felt, really since my feet never stop hurting and my back is so touchy, plus my ears ringing so annoyingly loud But, being free of all the inflammation I put up with for so long was sooooooo nice.
I have a few extra Enbrel injectors. I might give myself an extra shot for the next two weeks. Or, I'll save them in case my rheumy does decide to switch biologics.
Ugh, Jamie, that sounds disappointing. I hope the Stelara works for you! But, ugh, I dread biologics that last three months. So what do you do if there are SEs or if you're allergic?
Sybil said:
Hi Grandma J from your twin across the pond. Okay, that's not to say I'm having exactly the same symptoms as you, but boy are they similar! I am having a lot more pain. It's often at its worst by lunchtime to the extent that I could just plain cry into my sandwich. Like a misery vest across shoulders, down back, arms & backside. Forgot to mention legs. Weirdly, the feet are a little better most days.
Big difference is that nobody's mentioning my heart. I realise you so need to get this possibility checked out. For me what is going on is PsA, I'm maybe 90% sure. Occasionally I wonder about fibro but I think it more likely that tendons are kicking off, or rather the entheses I suppose.
My last rheumy appointment was a bit pathetic really. It was my first one for 8 months, there had been an unavoidable delay apparently. And most of that was spent discussing what happens when I move house to another CCG (health authority). I was there all of 20 minutes, he noted that I have a fair few tender joints and my left knee is a bit swollen again and his verdict was that my PsA is 'reasonably well-controlled' where it used to be 'very well-controlled'. I did not really lay it on the line about the pain enough because I forgot to take my brain with me.
So what is going on eh? For you? For me? I assume that PsA, being a progressive condition, may worsen even when a biologic is working adequately. Presumably the deterioration would happen more slowly than without the bio. Or perhaps Humira is failing for me and Enbrel is failing for you. I rather suspect that would mean a tough few months at least between considering the possibility and waiting to see if it is indeed the case. And then starting a new one and more waiting ....... Oh my.
Well I reckon you should see your internist ASAP. Get the process started. I hope there are no heart or circulation problems.
I think another thing you & I have in common is that we've both been delighted by how incredibly effective our biologics are. But realistically I note that for many others, while the biologics may still be game changers, pain and fatigue etc. remain significant.
I'm not going to attribute your symptoms to stress 'cos I'm fed up of people suggesting my probs are stress-related. When I achieve Nirvana I may feel a whole lot better of course but I'm sick of waiting! Good to hear from you even though it's not the best time ever.